Tag: Adoption
It’s a homeschool thing . . . you wouldn’t understand.
Wishing I was half the dad my kids thought I was.
Today we celebrate fathers. Today my family celebrates me. Today will be bittersweet.
Firstly, I had no father to celebrate when I was a wee lad.
Young boys growing up without a dad miss out on so many experiences that contribute to a healthy upbringing. I was no exception.
And what makes it harder to accept is that it didn’t have to be that way; he chose for it to be that way. All these years later I still bear that scar. It’s a wound that time has never healed and the weight of which my own wife and children have no idea that I carry.
Secondly, for me this day shines a light on my failures as a father, laying them bare and raw.
Today I will receive accolades and handmade cards with misspelled words telling me I’m the best dad in the world. But the truth is, I know I’m not . . . not even close . . . and that pains me terribly.
So today, while my family showers me with flowery platitudes, I will be troubled inside. I will be wishing I could be a better father and husband, and wondering if I would have been, if only my dad had stuck around to be that example.
Today, more than any other, I will be reminded that if I was half the dad my kids thought I was, I’d be doing all right.
For everyone else . . . Happy Father’s Day.